Choose To Fight or To Understand

Memorable outcomes of my fights to be right serve a purpose when I look at them and ask, “What did you learn?” It’s so easy to rush to battle, and so admirable to watch people who first seek to understand and then to be understood (Melanie Trump said that…no she didn’t, Steven Covey did in 7 Habits of Highly Effective People).

The art of understanding is in listening. When I’ve been most respectful I am shown the the feelings rooted in fear which may be a contributor to an attitude of battle. Respect is served with space and patience. In my rushing to results days, impatience bowls through the space and rumbles over respect. I know what patience looks like and accomplishes.  I’ve seen admirable patience in my sons, young people who let go, seniors who know what life is about, and other well adjusted people who probably have faith in the power of Karma.

I was just told that a person believes I’m not trying hard enough. She may be right. Trying hard is not a path I will walk.  I’m being patient. I’m being gentle. I’m listening and understanding. It’s freedom to be at peace with the world. I choose to not fight today. Let’s see if the universe accepts patience. I believe it does.

Author: Tom Meyer Real Estate Broker, Madison, WI

I believe every every Offer to Purchase can present the unique ability of the person the contract is written for. The person who is most compelled to be cooperative, most qualified, most sincere, most committed, least risk adverse, can have an Offer drafted to show their true ability and commitment. Home sellers are likely to look favorably upon those offers which give them the most comfort. Licensees who know how to craft Offers as unique as the individual buyer are worth their weight in gold.

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